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Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

A Prayer For Children

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month.  Last April I posted this.  This year, my Aunt Jan gave me a great "prayer" from a newspaper clipping she had.  I have no idea what newspaper, what year, or who wrote it.  But I do know it is awesome.  I thought I would share it with you.


A Prayer for Children
By: Ina Hughs

We pray for children
who put chocolate fingers
everywhere,
who like to be tickled,
who stomp in puddles and ruin
their new pants,
who sneak Popsicles before
supper,
who erase holes in math
workbooks,
who can never find their shoes.

And we pray for those
who stare at photographers
from behind barbed wire,
who’ve never squeaked across
the floor in new sneakers,
who never “counted potatoes,”
who are born in places we wouldn’t be caught dead,
who never go to the circus,
who live in an X-rated world.

We pray for children
who bring us sticky kisses and fistfuls of dandelions,
who sleep with the dog and bury
goldfish,
who hug us in a hurry and forget
their lunch money,
who cover themselves with
Band-Aids and sing off key,
who squeeze toothpaste all over
the sink,
who slurp their soup.

And we pray for those who never get dessert,
who watch their parents watch
them die,
who have no safe blanket to drag
behind,
who can’t find any bread to
steal,
who don’t have any rooms to clean up,
whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s dresser,
whose monsters are real.

We pray for children
who spend all their allowance
before Tuesday,
who throw tantrums in the
grocery store,
and pick at their food,
who like ghost stories,
who shove dirty clothes under
the bed,
and never rinse out the tub,
who get visits from the tooth
fairy,
who don’t like to be kissed in
front of the car pool,
who squirm in church and
scream in the phone,
whose tears we sometimes
laugh at
and whose smiles can make us
cry.

And we pray for those
whose nightmares come in the
daytime,
who will eat anything,
who have never seen a dentist,
who aren’t spoiled by anybody,
who go to bed hungry and cry
themselves to sleep,
who live and move,but have no
being.

We pray for children
who want to be carried,
and for those who must.
for those we never give up on,
and for those who never get a
chance.

For those we smother,
and for those who will grab the
hand of anybody
kind enough to offer.


And so, this month and always:  Love a Child.  Hug and Kiss them.  Let them know that They are the Only Them on the Planet and that They Matter.  Pray for Them.
And while you love the children in your life, remember that there are many, many, many children in the world, in your country, in your state, in your city, in your neighborhood, and perhaps even next door that need:
Love.  Hugs and Kisses.  Someone to tell them that They are the Only Them on the Planet and that They Matter.  Pray for Them too.

Wishing Love and Happiness to ALL the children of the world~
~M~

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Our Kids

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month.
There are few things in my life that I am more passionate about than children. Very Few. I believe in the very core of my being that children really are our future.
I could fill this post with all kinds of statistics on how many children are abused and neglected (and trust me-it is a lot) but I won't. You can google that.
Here is what I will tell you:
In my career working for Family and Children Services I work with abused and neglected children (primarily teenagers) every day. The following are word for word some of the questions my kids have asked me:
"Miss M., do you think anyone will every love me?"
"Will I ever have somewhere to live forever?"
"Why doesn't anyone like me enough to take me out to eat or to a ballgame?"
So I am passing the questions on to you, not just for the month of April but throughout the months and years ahead. Will you make sure they know they are loved? Will you provide a home where they can live forever? Will you become a mentor and make sure that they know they are valued and loved and liked?
It is our responsibility after all. Yes, I said OUR responsibility. And if you think it is not your responsibility, you are sadly mistaken friend. If we don't take care of these wonderful children, children that just need a shot at life, a chance to show who they really are now. . .we and they will pay for it later. These are our future lawyers, doctors, child advocates, small business owners, military personnel, hair stylists, and the list goes on. If we do not nurture them NOW, let them know beyond the shadow of a doubt that they are loved NOW, and care for them NOW, their futures could be in jeopardy. And if I know anything it is this: If their future is in jeopardy, then most certainly our future is in jeopardy.
So I challenge you to do your part. Wear a blue ribbon this month. Donate to organizations that help and support these children and foster parents. Offer to cook dinner for a foster parent and their families. If you are in a position to, become a foster parent. Be a mentor. Get involved. Do something. Know the reward of knowing these kids. Because I promise it is sooo worth it.
Yes, these children, these amazing, wonderful children are going to change the world. It is up to us to be sure it is going to be for the better.
To find out more about the Children's Memorial Flag pictured at the beginning of this post click here. If you want more ideas of how you can help or to get statistics about child abuse and neglect in your own communities, the internet is full of information. I am also happy to assist you in efforts to get involved. Just send me a message and let's get this conversation started. NOW. Not later. After all, all of our futures depend on it!
Wishing you the awesome joy of getting involved and knowing these children,
M.